Sunday, September 27, 2009

Gwen's visit = an amazing and busy week!

This week has been a wonderful and packed adventure. Tim's friend from college, Gwen came to visit!! And we all had an amazing time together!!

Gwen arrived late Wednesday night. Thursday she observed Tim teaching his class in the afternoon, then after school Gwen and Tim went to downtown Merida to go out to eat and look around the downtown. They went to the free art museum and walked around the Grand Plaza. Thursday evening Tim and I had to go back to school for the back-to-school Parent's meeting. All the parents came and the school director made some remarks before all the parents went to their kids' respective classrooms. So Tim and I had 30 or so parents in each of our two classes. We had 20 mins with each group and presented on who we are, what our goals are for the school year, discipline, etc. There were time for questions and the parents were very invovled. The night was very encouraging to see how many parents are genuinely interested in their kids lives and specifically in how they are doing academically. Afterwards I was trapped for about an hour for parents wanting to specifically address their child, and I have a couple meetings set up for next week to talk about specifics too. However, I got stressed when some parents were telling me their students are completely in over their heads and lost because it is too difficult, and others were saying their kids are bored because its so easy. It is very difficult with such different levels coming into the school year. About half my students know ZERO English, and the rest vary from knowing very little, to being conversational. I am going to break them into 4 groups based on ability and do lots of group work and give them different things to do and focus on so that all can improve.

So Friday we went to school and Gwen helped Tim teach Science Day! My kids had one a class prize and we watched a movie, had popcorn and pop and had extra recess - so it was a very easy day!! Right after school Friday we headed to the beach, Progresso, which is abotu 20 mins away. We went with Jeff and were able to use the church car! It was raining when we got there so we started by going out to eat:The rain stopped, but the clouds stayed, which made for a much more pleasant day at the beach. From about 3-7 we swam, played football, collected shells, saw a beautiful rainbow, and had a wonderful day at the beach! And no sunburns!On the way home from the beach we drown on Paseo de Montejo - the main strip in Merida - where all the fancy and expensive things are. We got out and walked around a bit. We saw some henequen plants - which are responsible for making Merida what it is today. Henequen plantations are all over and were grown and processed into hemp used to make clothing and hammocks. Here is what a plant looks like:We took some pictures of the monument of the flag.This monument took one man 40 years to make and is extremely complicated. Then we stopped at Emilio and Eva's house to pick up some maps of the city and state they bought for us. We ended up staying and chatting for about an hour. It was great that Gwen was able to meet them!


Saturday we slept in, Tim made Gwen and me pancakes, and we left for Chichen Itza at noon. We went in two cars - Gwen, Tim, Kari, Jeff, Erick and her two kids Renata and Alejandra, Angelica, and Tim's student Makayla. We arrrived in the city of Chichen Itza and ate lunch at a local lunch place - delicious and traditional Yucatecan food. Then we realized we didn't really have time to go to Chichen Itza - it closed in about an hour. So we decided to go to a centoe about 3 mins away instead... and we certainly are glad we did!The water surface was about 100 feet from the ground, but the water depth was 150 feet. The water was INCREDIBLY clear! When people dove down you could clearly see them all the way down. There were lots of black blind fish that looked like mini cat fish swimming around. And there were roots from trees and plants above that had reached into the centoe for a water source. We stayed there from about 3:45 till 7. It was so much fun! We jumped off of the steps lots. Here's Gwen:



Here's Tim jumping from about 10 feet into the 150 feet deep water below!

Kari and Jeff were a bit more risky and jumped from 40 feet above, right by the sign that said Do Not Jump from Here! It was awesome - take a look! Can you find me? I look very tiny!After the cenote, we went to Chichen Itza for the light and sound show that started at 8. They projected lights onto some of the Mayan ruins, mainly the large temple, while explaining the history of the different buildings as well as the history of the Mayan people. It was interesting!

On the drive home, the bug ran out of gas, so those of us in the other car had to go ahead and get gas. We filled three 2.5L pop bottles and brought it back to the stranded car. We finally made it home at 12:30 am, before the taxi came to take Gwen to the bus station at 5:30am!!

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Fiesta de la Dia de Independencia

Things have been going wonderfully for us here in Merida, and are definatly improving in the school department. Tim continues to be doing good, and is not having any behavior issues - he loves teaching and is getting raving reviews from the school director, the church pastor, the parent's of his students, and most importantly from the students themselves!! People are always coming up to me telling me what good things they've heard about my hubby - that makes me happy! Things are going a lot better in my class too. Here they are:
After 6 parent-teacher meetings, lots of notes home, and trying hard to be more firm, things are going better. And, there is a girl who was the 3rd grade English teacher at the school last year but this year couldn't because she is in college - anyways, she, Stephanie, is volunteering at the school 3 days a week in the afternoon. I expressed my need for help and my behavior problems to her and she volunteered to help. So she has observed me 3 days and then we had a long meeting discussing what I'm doing right and what I could do better. Basically she said the biggest thing is that I need to be more firm. So I've been trying really hard to put into practice all of her suggestions and it seems to really be helping so far! Also, tomorrow she is going to teach my afternoon class so that I can observe and get some subtle tips from watching her! So I've very excited about that and am already feeling like "okay, I can do this, things are going to get better!"

Enough about school. Today is Mexican Independence day... which you think would mark the day of their official indepedence, but really, it marks the day 10 days and 11 years before the actual independce. In actuality it marks the day which the call for an independence movement was started. Regardless, this is when we celebrate the wonderful "Republic of the United Mexican States" which by the way is Mexico's offical name. So the church had a party for the whole church and school last night. IT WAS A BLAST!!! There were around 450 people there and was a wonderful time of fun and fellowship!
Below is Tim with our buddy Ceasar - he is our age and speaks only 5 words of English - but he loves Tim so much and they have a cool bond - built mainly off of high-fives and hugs!:

We got to see a lot of our church friends and talk with them. As well as students and their parents which was great.

This picture is of Kari and her student Zuri. I included this because I think it is so funny that as soon as I bent down in the picture to be closer to Zuri, she too bent down! lol kids are great!The picture below is Kari with 5 of her students, Tim, and Jeff (another American teacher) with 2 of his students:By the way, Tim and Jeff are becoming such great friends! The support eachother and pray together, laugh together, call eachother "dude" all the time and generally love the other's company. They are planning to get together for a giant pizza and a football game as an escape from reality and to have a US day!

At the party there was a competition who could sing the revolutionary song the best in the mic. Tim and Jeff were elected to be in the competetion and sing it as a duet. Though they didn't know the words or the tune, amazingly THEY WON!! Here is their vicotry shot:To celebrate their little-deserved, but very-appreciated victory, Jeff, Tim and I went to jump on the bouncies that they church had rented with our students! At one point there were probably 25 kids and the three of us bouncing away! It was really great to be able to just have fun and spend some quality time outside the classroom with our students. Speaking of which, our friend and fellow teacher Ericka is taking us to Chichen Itza (one of the 7 wonders of the world) next Saturday with her two daughters (Renata is in my class, and Alejandra is in Jeff's class)! We are very excited to go - but even more exciting is that GWEN will be with us!!! Gwen is one of Tim's best friends from college who is coming to visit us next Wednesday and will stay till Sunday! Tim and I are both very very excited to have her here and have our first visitor!

Thank you all for the love, prayers and support! Please pray that we can really reach our students and share Christ's love with them. And please pray for safe travels for Gwen when she flies down here!

Monday, September 7, 2009

Cenotes and Caves

This weekend Tim and I were blessed to be able to go to Homun where we saw an awesome cenote (underground lake) and a other-world cave! The cenote was awesome, filled with stalagtights and stalagmites. At some points the water was only chest deep, but then would suddenly drop off and go to 150ft dept! All the cenotes in the Yucatan are connected through underground rivers, so scuba divers dive down into those 150 deep places looking for the underground rivers. Already thousands of cenotes are known in Yucatan, but it is suspected that hundreds of thousands more are yet to be discovered. Then we went out to lunch before heading to the cave. The cave opening is in a family's backyard property. So we just drove up, knocked on the door, paid $0.75 each to enter. It was an other-world type of experience! There were bats flying everywhere. At one point we had to squeeze through a 3foot x 3 foot hole. We also came across a cenote deep within the cave. Overall, it was a wonderful trip and we had a great time getting to know Fernando better! He is a wonderful christian man with a very interesting story that we are slowly learning about.







School skill continues to be very difficult and mentally and emotionally trying. Please pray for patiences, energy, and endurance! Thanks!

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

You Never Know!!!

“You NEVER know”…… (said with wide eyes, and an amused smile) This has been a daily exclamation Tim and I share.

Whenever we think we know exactly what we are getting ourselves into, or we think we have a good picture of where we are going, what we are doing, or how things are going, without fail we are DRAMATICALLY wrong. Thankfully though, the VAST majority of time we are pleasantly surprised by how different and wonderful things are than expect – though we share a shrug and raise our eye-brow in our amusement of the situation.

Do they really have any good examples, you ask….. you can be the judge of if they are good, but here are some examples.

1. Saturday: Emilio and Eva told us they were going to take us to Dzibilchatún which is a site of Mayan ruins and beautiful cenotes (a fresh water pool of crystal clear water underground). This place is located a mere 10 miles from Merida. They were going to pick us up at 2 Saturday. At 2 we get a text that they will be there at 3. At 3:45 there is a knock on the door. It was Fernando (Emilio’s brother whom we’ve eaten with before and truly enjoy). He explains that now he will take us to Dzilblchatún. He drives us to his mom’s house to pick up his niece, Lilly and her daughter, Fernanda. But while there, we randomly eat at now 4:35pm. Then Fernando remembers that the centote and ruins close at 5. So we plan on going to Uxmal which is a MUCH bigger Mayan ruin site with a very large central pyramid. But on the way we stop at a cenote which is 30mins on a bumpy dirt round from the high way. We go in the bat filled cave and look at the crystal water, but don’t swim. Then we continue towards Uxmal, but stop at an old hacienda – which is a old plantation for hemp. It was gorgeous. We finally make it to Uxmal at 8pm for the light show that starts at 9. We get there and it is closed, a heavy storm had passed through and blew out the electricity. So, we start on our way home (we are now 2hrs out). We then stop for dinner at this tiny town called Muna.

It was a much different Saturday than we’d expected, but we enjoyed it to the fullest! We had a wonderful time talking with and getting to know Fernando, Lily and Fernanda (who is in Tim’s 4th grade class). They are truly wonderful and loving people.

2. Sunday: We arrive at the church at 8:30am to go on a mission trip to Hocobá – a small city 30 minutes southeast of Merida, oh wait, that is by car… we are taking buses. So we meet Ruth and her mom “R” at church. We then take a bus to downtown Merida (30mins) then walk 15min to catch the next bus to Hocobá.

“What is the schedule for the bus” you ask…. Whenever there is enough people to fill it, it will leave. “So that could be 5mins or 2hrs!!” you exclaim… exactly, but that’s how it is.

So 1hr of sitting on the 15 passenger van in the backing sun, and it finally fills and we are off. An hour bus ride of blasting music later, we arrive. We get dropped off in the center of the town of Hocobá – population 3,000 – and take a pedal driven taxi- very much like those from the Flintstones- about 10 mins to the very outskirts of the town to a Mayan village. Our church has a satellite church there. Ruth gave the service and Tim, R, and I taught the 15 kids (ages 1 to 15) Sunday school. It was a wonderful and eye-opening experience. The people there were very hesitant and nervous around us at first, but by the time Sunday school was half-way done the kids were hugging us and wanting their picture taken. It is amazing, in the town of Hocobá NO ONE has beds, everyone uses hammocks because most houses are only 1 room, so they hang the hammocks to sleep and move them in the morning to live, sit, cook and eat. The director of missions asked us to prayerfully consider joining the Hocobá mission team because there are currently only 5 members and at least 2 people need to go every week. We are very excited about this and want to go back – and the kids want us too – when we left they kept asking when we’d be back!

3. Monday School starts. We get to school and are handed a letter 10 mins before school starts explaining when school starts, when lunch is, and that we will be having a presentation for the whole school that day. 19 munchkins loudly pushed their ways into our classrooms looking at Tim and me expectantly, not knowing that we have never taught before, have no idea what we are doing, and are completely overwhelmed. My first class went pretty smoothly, only had to doll out a few punishment cards. Then we had an assembly with all 300 kids sitting on the sanctuary floor watching a clown performance. Second class was much much worse! 19 kids smashed into a tiny classroom with no AC on a 100 degree first day of school, right after watching clowns is NOT a good combo! Tim and I both went home exhausted but relieved that the first day was behind us!

4. Tuesday Repeat of 1st day minus the fact that Tuesday during the second half of the day we are told we have to be in the sanctuary with all of our kids at 12:30 (right in the middle of our second group). We try and go there but they stop us all in the courtyard to take a “quick” group picture. At 1:15 after 45mins of 300 kids and teachers standing in the sun on a 100 degree day we are done with the picture. We then are told to return to class. Yea, like any class can continue after that! We all had to take our kids to get drinks then frantically find a way to entertain them, or at least keep them quite until the 1:40 bell. 1:40 is the end of the school day, but just the beginning of the headache which is the departure. All 300 kids pack into the church sanctuary and listen to the competing megaphones calling out kids names as the parents stand in the sun waiting, and the kids are yelling, pushing, fighting…. It is a very chaotic ending to a tiring day.

5. Wednesday Repeat of Tuesday, but much better. No loud all-school events and students were better behaved. Things are getting better and going smoother, though we still have a long way to go.

Today we finally got INTERNET!! Wahoo!! And ONLY 2 and ½ weeks after we ordered it! Lol But we are very glad it is finally here!

So, a few more words about school. This are going okay, and we keep praying that they get better. It has been an exhausting first 3 days of school. For me, 2 groups of 19 kids who do not know more than a few words of Spanish is very difficult. I also have many kids who do not respond to the punishment system the school has and therefore cause disruptions that cause the whole class to get out of control. It is hard because we are expected to both teach these kids English and Bible, but we have no support. We do not have materials that can support us in our efforts to teach them because the materials that we are provided FAR surpass the level of understanding our kids have. My Bible material, for example, is for the average US 3 graders. But I have 3 graders who are not native English speakers, and most of whom cannot count past 10, do not know their shapes or colors, and do not even know where to begin to write a simple sentence in English. If I say “We are going to play a game” in English, the whole class raise their fist as a symbol that they don’t understand. So, 99% of my class I speak in Spanish to them. But I’m slowly saying more and more in English, though everything I say in English I immediately translate back to Spanish. One positive- my Spanish is really improving quickly!

So, needless to say, it is going to be a VERY challenging year. 1st we need to asses and see which kids know how much. 2nd we need to create our own lesson plans, goals, and material to teach English to the kids.

Tim’s class is going a bit better. His kids are more well behaved and he says he’s doing good because he’s cracking the whip! He has 1 kid in each class that is fluent in English and serves as his translator so that the rest of the class can understand the directions he is giving. He has a wonderful attitude and is doing well, but too is exhausted by the time the school day is over.

So, to end on a positive note: Tim and I are more in love more than ever and we keep finding new ways and more ways we love each other! We are enjoying married life and are very glad that we are here in Mexico for our first year of marriage! (though just today Tim said on our sweltering walk home from school…. “What are we doing in this country?!?!?” lol)
We continue to be blessed beyond belief by the wonderful people here. Pastor Sam and his daughter Emily just stopped by for about 20 mins to chat! How wonderful!! We love our fellow teachers and the church and church members!!

God continues to bless us!

Prayer Requests:
1. Please pray that we learn how to be more effective classroom managers and teachers. Pray for patience and energy to be the most effective teachers possible.
2. Please pray that our students trust us and will open up to us and use us in their lives to develop their spiritual life and understanding of God, as well as seek us out for emotional support.
3. Pray for Robert and Sam as they lead the school and church respectively.
4. Pray for our eyes… we both have periodic spells of very painful and red eyes but can’t find the cause yet.